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By
Richard Monette, B.Sc., B.E.d., MA
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No matter
what level of hockey you play, MENTAL TOUGHNESS is the
most VALUED quality. Mental toughness (MT) is the
ability to consistently sustain your ideal performance
state while facing ADVERSITY in competition – It is the
ability to perform to your potential under pressure.
Coaches
like mentally tough players because they STAY TRUE to
themselves – they play THEIR game no matter
what. Mentally Tough players are usually more
disciplined and versatile – they adapt more easily to
varied game plans.
Improving
Mental Toughness
Mental
Toughness is a very broad concept. Wetter I am
consulting with Olympic medallists, World Champions,
professional players or weekend warrior, I always follow
the same THREE STEPS.
Step
one: Simplify Mental Toughness
It is very
difficult to improve Mental Toughness as a whole. It is
important to understand that Mental Toughness is the SUM
of eight different components or mental skills:
1.
Self-Confidence
2.
Self-Motivation
3.
Accentuating Positive Energy
4.
Controlling Negative Energy
5. Ability
to Focus and Concentration
6. Attitude
Control / A warrior’s attitude
7.
Visualizing (Using your ability to create mental images
to learn faster and better)
8.
Self-Discipline
In other
words, mentally rough players score high on all of these
eight mental skills. The process becomes a lot simpler
once players understand that they can actually improve
some of the mental skills that contribute to MT, one at
a time.
Step two:
Identify areas of strengths and weaknesses.
I assess a
players level on each of the eight mental skills or
components of MT.
Step
Three: Plan to improve
Then we
build a plan to progressively improve a player's
delivery of the eight components of MT beginning with
the greatest weaknesses.
What follow
is a simplified version of the three steps I have just
explained: 1. You will find a brief description as well
of a simple self-evaluation of each of the eight
components of MT. To complete, the self-evaluation, read
the definition then choose one of the four answers
proposed.
2. Then,
you will be instructed on how to add up your score to
identify your strengths and weaknesses.
3. You will
find some suggestions on how to improve eight components
of MT.
Step one: Evaluate yourself!
Component
1. Self-Confidence
It is a
profound and calming belief in yourself. It is the
profound knowledge that you will find the answers to
overcome all the obstacles and challenges that will come
your way. A self-confident player is not afraid of
making mistakes and plays in the moment.
Evaluating
your level of Self-Confidence:
1.1) In
training and practices, I know that I will find the
answers to overcome challenges and I perform with a
clear mind, without major fear or making mistakes...
a) Never
b) Rarely
c)
Sometimes
d) Always
1.2) In
games, I know that I will find the answers to
overcome challenges and I perform with a clear mind,
without major fear or making mistakes...
a) Never
b) Rarely
c)
Sometimes
d) Always
Component
2. Self-Motivation
It is the
ability to push your self from within. Self-motivated
players clearly know what they want and do the work
require getting it. Being highly self-motivated will
help you endure the pain, discomfort and self-sacrifice
required to elevate your game.
Evaluating
your level of Self-motivation:
My push and
my drive to work hard and surpass myself in training,
practices and games comes from...
a) Always
others
b)
Sometimes others
c) Mostly
myself
d) Always
myself
Component
3. Accentuating Positive Energy
It is the
ability to become energized yourself with joy,
determination and team spirit. Players who have the
ability to accentuate these positive elements of being a
high-level player are always ready to perform and face
challenges. They usually attack problematic situations
that arise within the team head-on and invest their
effort in finding solutions.
Evaluating
your ability to accentuate Positive Energy:
When I
train, practice and play, I CHOOSE to fill my mind with
emotions that are...
a) Very
Negative
b) Mostly
Negative
c) Mostly
Positive
d) Always
Positive
Component
4. Controlling Negative Energy
It is the
ability to face and MANAGE the INEVITABLE negative
emotions associated with high-level competition like
fear, anger, and frustration. Players who are not able
to control negative energy are often inconsistent in
their levels of performance.
Evaluating
your my ability to control Negative Energy:
When I
train, practice and play, I fall into a negative state
of mind (i.e. in a funk...)
a) Never
b) Rarely
c)
Sometimes
d) Always
Component
5. Ability to Concentrate and Focus
It is the
ability to tune-in what is important and tune-out what
is not important. To focus your energy in what REALLY
matters. Highly focused players usually own and deliver
the game plan.
Evaluating
your Ability to Concentrate and Focus:
5.1) When I
train and practice, I can describe my focus as ...
a) "All
over the place"
b) Weak
c) Strong
d) "Intense
as A laser beam"
5.2) When I
play games, I can describe my focus as...
a) "All
over the place"
b) Weak
c) Strong
d) "Intense
as A laser beam"
Component
6. Attitude Control
It is HOW
you CHOOSE to react to the demands and challenges that
you’ve CHOSEN to face when you chose to be a hockey
player. The right attitude leads to a better flow of
energy. Players who can control their attitude are
usually liked and respected by their teammates. They are
often chosen as leaders. They often stand-up and take
charge of the team in difficult situations.
Evaluating
your ability to control your attitude:
When I
train, practice and play, my attitude is ...
a) Very
Negative
b) Mostly
Negative
c) Mostly
Positive
d) Always
Positive
Component
7: Self-Discipline
It is the
mental self-control required to perform. It is a display
of mental strength over impulses. It is the commitment
to behaviors that favor the team. Self-disciplined
players win the mental battles during a game. They
rarely take retaliation penalties.
Evaluating
your level of self-discipline:
My ability
to control my emotions and act in a way that will favor
my team is a ...
a) A major
weakness
b) A
weakness
c) A
strength
d) A major
strength
Component
8: Visualizing – Creating mental images to learn faster
and better.
Visualization is the process of creating clear and
complete pictures of what you want to achieve. When you
visualize, you conceptualize skills, techniques, plays
and optimal behaviors. Visualizing helps you understand
and learn all aspects of hockey better and faster.
Evaluating
your ability to visualize:
8.1) When I
visualize, the mental images I create in my mind are...
a)
Non-existent (as in "Image? What Image?")
b) Fuzzy
c) Clear
d) Like
reality itself
8.2 When
the coach explains a new drill or play, I take the time
to visualize it in my mind
a) Never
b) Rarely
c)
Sometimes
d) Always
Step 2: Score yourself – identify your
Strengths and weaknesses
For each
component, score yourself as follow:
For every
time you've chosen the answer "a" give yourself 1 point
For every
time you've chosen the answer "b" give yourself 2 points
For every
time you've chosen the answer "c" give yourself 3 points
For every
time you've chosen the answer "d" give yourself 4 points
Obviously,
the higher your overall score, the higher your level of
mental toughness - or you ability to perform to your
potential under pressure. What is more important is your
score on EACH of the eight component: You should score
at least a "3" on each component. If not, begin working
on improving yourself.
Steps 3: Plan to improve
Some Suggestions on how to improve the eight components to mental
toughness
To improve
self confidence:
· -Work
harder: Your level of self-confidence will improve when
you KNOW you’ve worked hard to improve yourself.
· -Set
realistic AND informed goals for your life, your career,
your season, each practice, each game...
· -Keep an
“ACCOMPLISHMENT” diary in which you will keep track of
your personal victories.
· --Keep a
“DETERMINATION” diary in which you will turn your defeat
into victories by REFLECTING and learning from your
mistakes and failures.
· -Seek
clarity of your roles and responsibilities within the
team
· -Seek
clarity from your coaches on what you should improve on
To improve
your level of self-motivation
The way to
raise your level of self-motivation is to find a true
and strong purpose in your quest to become the best
player you can be. To achieve this, you’ve got to take a
realistic look at what you want and what you will get
out of becoming a world-class player.
· - Set
meaningful and motivating long-term goals that reflect
your desires – Ask and answer the question: What’s in it
for me?
· -Commit to
your goals in a training log and keep a daily record of
your accomplishments
· -Associate
with self-motivated players
· -Consciously
elevate your threshold to pain and effort –
progressively push yourself beyond your limits
· -Read books
and watch movies about great people and great players
To improve
your ability to accentuate positive energy:
This mental
skill comes from a CONSCIOUS decision to become
energized with joy, determination and team spirit. You
can improve in this department by:
· -Ask
yourself: Am I having fun? If not, you might be playing
the wrong game...
·
-Make an
effort to see the good side of things and associate with
players who do the same
· -Learn to
enjoy BEING challenged – it’s the only way to improve...
· -Be
patient... we all need time to learn and improve, Yet,
make sure you focus your work.
· -Always
remind yourself that you CHOSE to be a player... might
as well have fun with it!
· -Make sure
you’re in great shape – If your body is tired, your mind
will be tired and more negative...
To improve
your ability to Control Negative Energy:
· -Slow down -
don’t catastrophize. Look at the big picture (review
your career plan).
· -Learn
relaxation techniques - learn to breathe.
· -Ask
yourself what you can learn about yourself while you are
learning to become a better player
· -Get use to
the pressure – Stimulate competitive situations as often
as possible.
· -Make sure
you’re in great shape – If your body is tired, your mind
will be tired and more negative...
To improve
your ability to Focus and Concentrate:
· -Become
aware of what you pay attention to when you train,
practice and play.
· -Enhance
your ability to Focus in the “right here-right now”
exercise for example:
· -Again, make
sure you have a clear idea of where you are going – Set
goals for your career, season, each game, and each
shift.
· -Improve
your relaxation, calming and quieting skills – We all
need to get rid of the @#$&” in our mind once in awhile…
· -Make sure
you’re in great shape – If your body is tired, your mind
will be tired and less focused...
To improve
your ability to control your Attitude:
·
-Become
aware when you display positive and negative attitudes
in training, practices and games. Recognize the patterns
and identify the triggers to your negativity. Once these
triggers are identified and rationalized, they are
usually easily removed.
· -Positive
affirmations and statements reinforces positive
attitude.
· -Attitude is
a matter of critical mass, therefore associate with
players who have a positive attitude.
· -Negative
attitude will drain energy from players and team. In
extreme cases, players with consistently negative
attitude should be eliminated from the team.
· -Remind
yourself you CHOSE to become a hockey player. Make sure
you know what it implies and realize the price YOU are
ready to pay to achieve your goals.
· -Dream BIG
and OFTEN!
· -Make sure
you’re in great shape – If your body is tired, your mind
will be tired and more negative...
To improve
your level of self-discipline:
· -When you
enter the locker room, Step out of yourself and into the
team...
· -Commit to
owning and delivering your team's game plan
· -Respect
officials, even those who make bad decisions – it’s a
long-term battle. If you overcome your impulse to insult
official, they will favor you in the long run…
· -Make every
game a play-off game. Observe the decision-making
process of players during the NHL playoffs – they almost
always make the right decision to favor the team.
· -Always keep
the bigger picture in mind. Ask yourself as often as
possible what really matters?
· -Defeat is
always the greatest pain, but it is also a great
teacher. Take time to reflect and learn from your
defeats.
To improve
your ability to Visualize – Using your ability to create
mental images to learn faster and better.
· -Visualization is a skill that you can acquire and
develop - visualize, visualize, visualize!
· -Visualize
in “real-time” – try to make images as complete as
possible.
· -Visualize
models – Imitate videos of great players for example.
Watches a game on TV and during commercial visualize
yourself performing as the "pros" do.
· -During
practices, take a few seconds to Visualize the drills
and plays explained by your coach.
· -When you
are given a game plan, take the time to visualize each
of the components. On the way to the game for example,
visualize yourself delivering the prescribed team
"fore-check" or transition game.
· -Visualize
to refocus during games. If you are a power-forward for
example, use a few second in between each shift to see
yourself going in the corner, making a hit that gives
you control of the puck, then see yourself making a pass
to your center in front of the goal.
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